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The monk who was my
oblation director, guiding my studies of
the Rule, waited patiently for me to sort out my
muddle. Finally I said to him, "I can't
imagine why God would want me, of all
people, as an offering. But if God is foolish
enough to take me as I am, I guess I'd
better do it."
The monk smiled
broadly and said, "You're
ready."
___________________ Kathleen
Norris
from The Cloister Walk
Judeo-Christian
Worldview
While formally trained in Psychotherapy and Counseling, my goal
has always been to integrate principles of the
Judeo-Christian worldview, its spiritual
philosophy, ethical disciplines, Biblical insight
and Scripture into my counseling practice.
This blend of psychotherapy and spiritual
worldview has proven very effective in resolving
difficult and sometimes very complex life
issues. Although I routinely integrate
principles of the Judeo-Christian Biblical
worldview into my counseling practice, I do not
attempt to proselytize or push my spiritual
beliefs upon others. I always provide
written disclosure of my spiritual worldview for
this reason.
My
volunteer and professional training includes
employment at both Christian and secular
agencies. These diverse environments offered
extensive experience on which to draw insight and
direction for my style of counseling.
Combined with a Judeo-Christian Biblical
Worldview, my approach to counseling has matured
into a holistic and integrated philosophy
including both spiritual insight and modern
theoretical dynamics to provide a balanced and
effective approach to psychotherapy and
counseling.
Overall,
many common values cut across cultures and worldviews: a
mother's love for her child, a husband's love
for his wife, a minister's love for his
people. My personal worldview accepts that the
gifts of love and
respect are available and freely given by God regardless of
one's worldview. God's love continues to be
available – even if a person
chooses not to believe in God!
Comparison of Two Major
Worldviews
A skilled
counselor becomes a mirror to the client’s soul,
yet does not manipulate a client into doing
something against his or her will. Neither
is a counselor required to change his or her
worldview to match that of his or her
client. This is why understanding one's
personal values and spiritual beliefs system
becomes critically important to the counseling
environment. If a counselor does not master
his or her own system of thought, beliefs and
values, it becomes difficult or impossible to help
others master their
own.
Our
thoughts, beliefs and values often determine the
baseline to one’s spiritual and behavioral
reality. While there appears to be some altruistic
crossover among worldviews (e.g., feed the poor,
house the homeless, rescue those in need) there is
considerable divergence among spiritual
views. For example, the Judeo-Christian
worldview derives its core values directly from
the Bible; believing Scripture to be the inspired
word of God. So Christians serve others in
their desire to honor God.
On the
other hand, a Humanistic worldview denies any
literal revealed knowledge from a personal Creator
God. Although an Agnostic worldview leaves room
for an "unknowable and distant Creator God," it
does not recognize the validity of God-breathed
Scripture. The Bible is viewed as a
compilation of mythic characters and moral tales;
nothing more than a story
book.
Humanistic
(Secular) thought holds a major presupposition
that human beings are the ultimate evolved being
and therefore sole masters of their destiny.
Self is supreme! This premise creates a
spiritual void in the human soul. Since
human beings are the ultimate spiritual
reality, there is no need or room for anything
greater in a spiritual form of
deity.
These
worldviews often collide as polar opposites. Core
values for one are not
recognized by the other. Conflict emerges over
spiritual authority and personal power. One side
claims God and the other claims Self. Who says
what is right and wrong? These conflicting
worldviews are observed in political controversy
over separation of religion and state, abortion,
embryonic research, evolution
verses creationism in schools, the Ten
Commandments, etc.
In terms of
spiritual values, Humanistic and
Judeo-Christian worldviews are mutually
exclusive. Each hold specific beliefs and
its own philosophy. Hence, the term
"worldview".
Whether
differing views can work together to promote human
good is another question. If human beings
base their ultimate values upon self
actualization (e.g., reaching the top rung of Maslow's
hierarchy of human needs), we better hope those
setting the course are not sociopathic or narcissistic. This
paradox presents an internal problem to humanism
thought – the lack of
Higher Power outside self makes self the higher
power. In other words, man makes up the the
rules as he goes along. Recently, even the
humanists see a need for something spiritual in
their lives. But that is not the God of
Judeo-Christian Scripture.
Perhaps Viktor Frankl in
Man's Search for Meaning got closest to the
humanistic ideal when he wrote, "The more one
forgets himself – by
giving himself to a cause to serve, or another
person to love – the
more human he is and the more he actualizes
himself. In other words, self-actualization
is possible only as a side effect of
self-transcendence."
Setting
aside the authenticity of Scripture requires
humanistic thought to arbitrarily decide which
values are most worthwhile. For example, the
belief that each human being is uniquely
and wonderfully created by God and possesses
intrinsic value and worth collides with
Humanistic concepts like population control,
euthanasia and abortion. Values within these
two worldviews create an oil and water experience
–
although both views exist, the two are not
homogenous and never shall meet.
So ... why the emphasis on
worldview?
In this
culture of competing worldviews my desire is to
maximize the potential for a compatible counseling
relationship. I routinely provide counseling
to those with differing worldviews, and I
routinely explore the beliefs and values held by
each client. The main idea is to promote
understanding and to accept people where they are
at regardless of worldview. If worldviews
are significantly diverse, I want to be mindful of
my bias so not to lose sight of another's
perspective. By seeking common values I can
help clients reach their prospective goals whether
or not seen exclusively through the filter of the
Judeo-Christian worldview.
Theoretically,
goals and objectives can be entirely met
without going to into one's spiritual
worldview. However, I have found that
delving deep into intra-psychic or core relational
wounds often triggers exploration of personal
values and beliefs that can easily tap one's view
of spirituality. And unfortunately, without
Christ as a model (or something emulating the
character of Christ) it's not necessarily logical
to love your neighbor more than yourself.
This Scriptural edict defies "Survival of the
fittest."
What specific advantage is there to
working with a counselor who shares my
Judeo-Spiritual Worldview?
Especially
when dealing with issues that involve spirit and
soul it is imperative to correlate spiritual
worldviews. Since one's spiritual identity
is so personal and complex, it is generally not
something one explores with those of opposing or
even neutral spiritual worldviews. When a
person engages therapy and spiritual issues are
creating conflict or uncertainty, it becomes a
focal point of therapeutic healing.
Spiritual healing comes from a source greater than
the therapist. As a therapist I become an
agent of God's grace and healing, but I do
not become God. I look above and outside
myself for the healing hand of God to minister to
my clients.
An
advantage to my training and experience as a
psychotherapist and counselor is to explore the
mind and emotions in context of spiritual
conflict. If one's core spiritual beliefs
are incongruent with their life experience then
many conflicts (e.g., anxiety, depression, anger,
hopelessness) arise. I help clients
articulate the problem, expose the conflict, and
offer means to reconcile the difference between
belief and experience.
Many
clients seek my services specifically because of
my worldview, and because I integrate the
Judeo-Christian spiritual philosophy directly into
the counseling environment. Integration of
spiritual beliefs and concepts is very important
to many people, especially when they view their
spiritual beliefs as a fundamental part of whom
they are.
Furthermore, working within a mutual
worldview offers an already laid framework
concerning values and conceptualization of the
world and heavens around us. Though some
differences exist even within compatible
worldviews, I routinely observe a huge benefit to
speaking the same "spiritual language" as my
client. Worldview compatibility enables me
to encourage my clients by use of Scripture and
Biblical constructs already familiar to
them. Therapeutic prayer when requested by
the client (e.g., Theophostic Prayer Ministry), is an extremely
powerful tool to "touch and heal" their deepest
wounds of the soul.
Since the
very essence of counseling is based on trust and
understanding, one would think it advantageous to
integrate compatible worldviews when
possible. Why not begin with a common
foundation if it already exists?
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For those
who share the Judeo-Christian worldview and would
like to read more on how I integrate this
philosophy into my counseling theory and practice
... please go to section titled Spiritual
Philosophy located here or on the main
menu.
Spiritual
Philosophy
“Victory
depends on many
counselors."
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(Proverbs 24:6)
(c)
Thomas Isaac Berscheid, MA, LMFT, LPC, Licensed
Minister
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